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“Energy vampire” are really just people who don’t have enough of their own energy or lost their connection with the source energy. So when you come in contact or proximity with them, you often feel drained.

Why?Empath Art

Well, they are untentionally taking your energy from you and whomever is nearby because they don’t have enough of their own. They are vibrating at such a low state of energy depletion that their system needs to constantly BORROW energy anywhere possible. And because empathic individuals are not as skilled at keeping personal boundaries, our energy leaks. It’s the easiest to take.

It crazy right?

Okay, so we can’t really do much for those people except send them blessings that they will find whatever is needed to help them feel complete and happy.

The most powerful thing we can do is refocus our awareness.

Ask yourself: “How can I increase my vibration?”

According to Caroline Myss, an amazing knowledgible person who specializes in energy work, says that we can work to heal our wounds. The wounds that have caused the holes in our energy systems causing the energy leakages. I highly recommend watching her videos, “The Energetics of Healing (1988).” Very enlightening and extremely helpful for energy sensors to understand where their energy might be leaking. From which chakras and where in their history to go back to to heal the leak(s).

I love the anology she used to clarify our energy leakage. She explains that everyone of us wakes up with a maximum deposit of $100 dollars worth of energy. And it’s up to us how we want to use it. She calls it “energy investing”. The secret is to invest our $100 into places that will yield back an interest just like a well investment in our finances “ROI” return on investment. In our case, it’s “ROE” return on energy. This is the rule of the game. We have to choose wisely where to invest our precise limited energy. Because it’ll be stupid of us to throw our money away, spend it on something that will cause us debts.

It’s interesting how she explains if we continue to have energy leakages then we’ll end up borrowing from our cell tissue in our body! Which over time can cause us health issues. For example, have you ever seen someone age a few years overnight? Because their system was so overstressed, they unknowingly had to tap into their body tissues and borrow energy from there causing them to age at a rapid rate.

What do I do to repair the holes and stop the energy leakage?

Caroline Myss covers it more in depth in her videos what specific questions to ask yourself in each of the chakras to find out where you are leaking your precious life source energy.

Let’s go over the third chakra because I feel it pertains to those of us who are more empathic the most. This is the chakra that holds our personal power. How you fell about your self: your self-esteem, self-respect, and your integrity. It’s also the place of your personal boundary.

You may have energy leakage here if you seek approvals from others. Or you say you were going to do something and then break your promise with yourself. Dishonoring your promise such as “I’m going to workout tomorrow and then don’t” this will cause distrust in yourself. Integrity is so important because you need to know you can count on yourself. Your body needs to know it can depend on you. Without integrity with yourself, more than likely you ability to function in this physical world is is not as stable as it could be. So start with rebuilding your integrity if that is off.

It’ll bring back your confidence and trust within yourself. This will help you strengthen your energy and your personal boundary. With a stronger boundary, you are vibrating at a higher positive vibration. You won’t have the need to lean on another for their approval. And your energy won’t be leaking to another for their approval. Your emotions will not be solely dependent on their response. You ‘ll have the power to say, “You know what, I don’t want to invest any of my $100 dollars of energy into that opinion, thought, or energy. ”

Watch your thoughts and anytime you catch one of these energy leakage, call it back.  This practice will help you keep your energy and maintain your boundary and calm.

 

EXAMPLE OF THINGS TO DO AND not TO DO

Positive Investment on our $100 Energy:

  • Exercising
  • Eating healthy
  • Meditating
  • Cleaning up our noisy mind
  • Socializing with positive people
  • Do things that will energize you

Energy Leakage – Don’t invest here:

  • Noisy talking mind
  • Criticizing, complaining, condemning
  • Distraction
  • Bad gossip
  • Alcohol and drugs
  • Stress
  • Unhealthy food/ Food Allergy
  • Unresolved emotions and situations
  • Broken integrity with self
  • Things that zap your energy

*Rule: Stop doing what doesn’t work and start doing what works.

 

 

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Are you secretly hoping and wishing that one day things will be alright? You’ll finally reached that state of high vibration to be able to walk into a crowd and not be completely drained or absorb others’ unwanted energies.

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The TRUTH is it’s the simple things that matters. There’s no big miracle. As unskilled empaths, we keep waiting for that one thing that will save us from all the chaos. But what I have learn on my Europe trip is those who are energy aware are indeed living a vibrant life now! The kind of lives we want to create for ourselves…where we have more life source energy flowing in us constantly.

These skilled individuals have learned to use the simple things to give them energy. It’s no magic wand.

Here is the SECRET! They simply do their healthy eating, exercising, meditating, cleansing their energy, and cleaning their mind, tossing out any unhelpful fixed ideas or beliefs that are be hindering their progress to go where they want they go. Then putting more positive thoughts, feelings, images and goals they want into their mind. They keep their focus on the positive things that energizes them. They use their AWARENESS to do more of these helpful actions that in cycles feeds them

Similar to cleaning out your closet or house. Keep only what you want and toss out all the junks that’s taking up room. This simple action will free up space to keep and put more of what you only want.

No matter how simple or mundane these daily routines are, the CONSISTENCY of doing it everyday (as needed) keeps you clean and at a high vibration state where things that normally ticks you off won’t do so. You’ll keep your cool and awareness. And you’ll be attracting more helpful energy your way. Giving you more fuel to create more of what you want.

It’s the simple things that matters.

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Why is it that some people tend to attract great energy while others don’t do so well?

I’m able to answer that question better thanks to my experience touring Europe the past month. I got to tour France, England and Spain throughout for most of June. This trip was an eye opener for me.  It has given me many new perspectives. There is so much wealth out there: from material things to richness of energy.crystal

I was fortunate enough to meet some great individuals who were able to maintain their energy and share their secrets. Although they didn’t identify themselves as empaths, the characteristics they exhibited seemed to indicate they were (sensitive to food and environment, sensing others energies, and drained by others if they didn’t take care).

Here are some of their secrets…

Stacy in England was able to maintain her energy and stay grounded by first starting all her days religiously doing yoga. That helped her ground her energy, emotion, and mind in her body. Besides this crucial step for her, she also kept artwork, stones, and tools that constantly cleans her home. As I walked around her beautiful house, located in a small little sweet town, I noticed she kept buddha statues, paintings that seem to emit a blessing energy, and stones and pendants to continuously cleans her place.

Of course, she also practices healthy eating habits so that helps a lot. And her two adorable little dogs were a nice addition to helping keep the place light and happy. Honestly if all of us empathic individuals can live like Stacy, adopting her devoted habits of taking care of herself, we can definitely stay more grounded and energized throughout our days.

Then we met Emelda from Spain and Daniel from London at  Ashram center in Glastonbury, England. We explained how it was a challenge for us to constantly absorb others unwanted energies and emotions. Both of them shared they also lived in places that are also psychically heavy. They believed that since they were able to learn how to sustain their energy in such a places, they could pretty much function almost anywhere. When asked what they practice to keep their energy at such a high vibration, they shared that both practice Qi-Gong and Reiki and it has made all the difference for them.

We were curious how they had so much energy even though both did energy work for a living? Both of them explained that they don’t use their own energy. They tap into the divine source and the energy flows from there to not only energizes them but also their clients.

Amazing! Right?

Daniel went further to explain that he also uses crystal. And his place is completely filled with them and they help him stay energized.

So I asked him, if someone like him didn’t know anything and is constantly being drained by others energy and their environment, what would his one tip for them?

Daniel responded with a smile, “Reiki….and Qi-Gong. Those are my absolute two favorite and must do it.”

There you have it. The answers from three very knowledgible energy aware individuals who are able to stay in charge, energized, grounded, and connected to abundant source energy. This has made all the difference on which way their day goes.

Which practice is right for you?

I invite you to check out yoga, reiki, or qi-gong (I have) and see which one energizes you the most.

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Your sensitivity is becoming keener and louder.

Things are getting more intense.

As many of you might have already experienced or are experiencing…

Which is why I want to share these few clips from the Abraham-Hicks teaching.

Esther Hicks channels for a group of non-physical beings called Abraham on their teachings of  spirituality. Together they guide individuals to awaken in this time – here and now. They talk about subjects such as “law of attraction” and how to tune our frequency so we align with the source. They call it “being in the vortex”.

They have many interesting audios and books on these subjects and more. Below are a few clips I’d like to share with you today.

Here’s what they have to say to a person who feels others are zapping their energy… energy vampire.

And this second video below, is a video from Abraham-Hicks teaching on how we can create the life we want to live. Check them both out. It’s almost always nice to expand our perspectives.

Get your energy back by skillfully managing your energy. Guide yourself back to living the life you want…FOCUS and zoom in on the things you want not what you don’t want.

Let me know your thoughts below.

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As we discussed earlier in our post “How to Eliminate Negative Emotion and Create Positive Emotion“, changing our physiology is vital to creating positive emotions. This week I want to challenge you just that…

Practice “relaxing your body” throughout the day – especially before sleeping. This will greatly energize us since we are no longer using those energy to tighten our body.

For example, hold out your hand and squeeze your fist. Keep it tight. Notice how much energy and effort it takes to keep that fist tight. It is essentially the same thing happening when we tighten our body. Most of our energy is being used up when our body is tensed.

Let your tight fist relax now. Notice how much more energy you have now.

So by relaxing our body, we can free up those energies and have much more awareness.

I’m proposing that we put the next 3 days to test. Be aware of how our body is. Is it tight and tense or relaxed? Scan your body from head to toe. Put your awareness on your forehead, then scan your jaws, your neck, your chest, your arms, your stomach, your back, your legs and your feet. Relax any part of the body that is tense.

Whenever you spot an area that is tight, simply relax the muscle of that area. Use your breath to help you relax. Go ahead, take a deep breath… yes, breathe deep all the way from your belly.

Becoming aware of our body we can better understand and take care of ourself. With this ability we can better ground ourself in the state of presence. You’ll have more life energy passing through you to do other wonderful things you want in life.

How about it?

Join me in this discovery about how our body can stay energize…

I’m gonna let you in a little secret… I’ve already tested it for a day. I must say, I didn’t realize how much I tense my body throughout the day. When I woke up this morning after practicing relaxing my body yesterday and while I slept, I feel less tense and more relaxed. I have more energy flowing through me. I even feel like I’ve lost some weight this morning when I woke up.

I can’t wait to hear about your experience.

Let’s start now…watch your body and relax any tension you find.

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Neesha Zollinger from YogaToday.com  introduces us to a few Ayurvedic self care practices to keep us feeling and looking our best. Great for empaths and HSPs.

Enjoy the video below…(she has a  lot of personal care tips in it).

 

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