Sometimes as much as the people who loves us want to understand what it is that we are going through, they just don’t know. No matter how hard they try. Yeah, they can be empathic and pretend how it would be like to be in our shoes and understand it that way. It’s nothing like the way we do it.angel statue

When we say we understand them. We mean it literally!

I mean, we can feel what they are feeling…emotionally, energetically, and physically! We are not pretending. Our body aches where they ached and we feel their emotions up and down.

As much as they want to try to understand. They just don’t. I can’t blame them. They are the way they are. Just as we are the way we are.

Which is why it’s so important to talk to another who is just like you and me. Who is also an energy sensor.

Let me tell you. It gets lonely sometimes. Even though my husband is also an empath. It’s just not enough, we need more than one outlet to connect.

It’s crazy when I think about it, because there is so many of us out there yet we are all isolated. Pockets here and there. It’s just our nature to want to be isolated and far away from the crowds. Nevertheless, there’s is still a lot of us out there. And sometimes we just want to know we are not alone. Completely alone.

I moved out here to a small remote island in the Philippines and sometimes it drives me a bit crazy. Especially, when I have those intense sensitivities…and I feel like the world gets way to big for me to handle.

Ever had one of those moments?

And you just need to bond with those who knows what you going through. Connect. Just to say, yeah I understand. I’m not COMPLETELY alone on this experience. It’s just so sad because there’s so many of us out there who are probably feeling the same. Feeling like we are the only one going through this or that experience and no body to really understand what we are feeling.

That’s why I made EmpathSolutions.com in the first place. So people like us can connect, bond, and share things that work for us to help us work through such experiences. And to not feel like we are an alien on this isolated world…ALONE, and no one understands us.

I invite you to get active on the website.

And besides this, I will be doing my first telesiminar where i can answer your biggest question or challenges as an empath, please email your questions to faey(at)empathsolutions(dot)com.

I can’t know if you don’t ask. No telepathy powers for me just yet. :-)

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Ever feel overwhelmed by your environment? Does it sometime feel like others energy soaks into your personal space? Ever catch yourself feeling exhausted, angry, irritable, moody, or sick for no reason–it just came like a sudden flood out of no where? Have you ever asked yourself why you are so sensitive to others around you and the environment?

The good news is these feelings might NOT be yours.

You may be what others call an “empath” also know as a “highly sensitive person” (HSP). Empaths are highly sensitive of the environment and energy. Often they can sense others energy and even absorb others energy. They can sense how another person is feeling just by being in proximity or seeing the person as if the feeling is in their OWN body.

The following list is provided by Michael R. Smith, Ph.D of EmpathConnection.com to help you discover if you are an empath.

You May Be An Empath If…

1. You look at someone and “just know” their emotional state.
2. You can feel the energy coming at you (or being drained) from another person, especially from the eyes.
3. You have a blocked feeling in your chest [or core], as if someone is tugging on it.
4. Tend to run away from people when stressed, rather than engage.
5. You’ve been called “oversensitive,” especially if you’re male.
6. Always know where danger may lurk. (Curiously, you may have avoided accidents).
7. Are drawn to the tranquility of animals.
8. Are drawn to mountains, nature, the ocean – anywhere outdoors.
9. Can not bear violence in any form.
10. Can easily produce tears, sometimes at will.
11. You can feel the physical aches & pains of others.
12. Feel better after a good, intense cry.
13. See things from the “bigger picture” and from “the larger scheme of things.”
14. Are overwhelmed by large crowds or mobs (e.g. shopping malls).
15. Can sometimes feel affected by the energy of the full moon.
16. Have intense, fantastic, and sometimes lucid, dreams.

If this sounds like you… You’re not alone.

Be sure to check out the TOOLs & TIPs in our Empath Tool Box and leave us your comments & suggestions.

And for more helpful energy tips and techniques to help Empaths & Highly Sensitive People, check out Dr. Michael R. Smith’s The Complete Empath Toolkit: 44 Practical Steps to Master Your Energy and Personal Power.

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